The greatest love of all

Worrying too much about cancer could make the situation even worse. We have to love ourselves first before we can take good care of ourselves.

I always learnt that the body falls sick when the mind is weak. I compare the chemo side effect I noted from the lecture and the effects I got; mostly they arrive late and not much, except the extreme vomiting after the chemo session. If I felt depressed and even cried badly, the side effects would come fast in a combo set.

We have to be strong and fight with them. Nothing is permanent. They will come and go.

If you cannot always cheer yourself up to be strong all the time, use the power of love from your family. They would always be there for you. I choose not to stay near toxic people that would make me feel even sick. I stay close to my family and good friends. I smile and always be cheerful so that I will not be sticking to the sickness.

Most people say “ Dear, you don’t look like you are sick."
And my answer will always be “Of course, I’m not sick. I just got cancer”.